Showing posts with label mentoring. Show all posts
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March 4, 2008

Discipling with Words . . .

Although I definitely do not prescribe to the thoughts that modern or postmodern psychological arguments or theories are the penultimate authority, I do believe that there are some good premises in those fields. These fields of study are just as any other human endeavor, they are subject to being tainted by the fallen human nature. So with that said, let's take a look at what one of its members said.

Lev Vygotsky

Lev was a psychologist, was born in 1896 in Orsha, in the Russian Empire (today in Belarus). Vygotsky was tutored privately by Solomon Ashpiz and graduated from Moscow State University in 1917. Later, he attended the Institute of Psychology in Moscow (1924–34), where he worked extensively on ideas about cognitive development, particularly the relationship between language and thinking. His writings emphasized the roles of historical, cultural, and social factors in cognition and argued that language was the most important symbolic tool provided by society. (From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia)

Vygotsky said that we think in words. I can’t have thoughts that I don’t have the words to think those thoughts with. Many people that are bilingual probably think in the language that is native or more comfortable. I have neighbors that are Russian and Colombian, and every time I hear them speak to each other, they do it in their native tongue.

A tribe in the bush that did not have a word for tomorrow, never tried to save food or water or other necessities for tomorrow. They lived only for today. Ethnically/socially/culturally do we think differently and are unable to comprehend and positively affect the culture they are in.

Look at the vocabulary of today's teens.

Sic = cool, the best, apart from the rest.

WHATEVER = a Nihilist thought of this whole life that seems to be prevalent among teens.

Scripture says that there comes times when the groaning of our heart is the only thing that we have to offer up to God in prayer. The scripture says that the Holy Spirit intercedes on our behalf.

Also, in marriage, the sexual act may serve the purpose also to communicate to your partner the feelings and love that you have for them. Hopefully, that is not the only way for you. There are other ways to communicate love to your helpmate.

What about as it relates to discipling students?

Speaking the Language of the Faith

We need to get our students to understand the faith, right? How can I get them to not look at me on Wednesday nights like they are hearing new things all the time?

They need to understand the language.

Small groups are great for this. If this generation of students are going to be the revival generation it will be helpful, and I believe necessary, foSoul-Searching-coverr them to understand the language of the faith.

Christian Smith, in his groundbreaking research study THE NATIONAL STUDY OF YOUTH AND RELIGION, exposed several conclusions about the factors that lead students to understand their faith and practice it in a regular manner. One of the most intriguing conclusions that I picked up on concerning the articulation in the language of the faith.

Smith's study can be read in detail in his book, Soul Searching, The Religious and Spiritual Lives of American Teenagers.

What Are Articulate Christians?

When Dr. Smith conducted his interviews he asked teenagers what do they believe. Many times it seemed as if students never had been asked that before, or at the very least had never thought about their answer.

By contrast the teenagers could articulate what they thought or believed about AIDS, STD's, safe sex, drugs, and other socially pertinent subjects. So, the question that begs an answer is this: Can a faith that one cannot talk about be real to the person?

The answer is not cut and dry, however, the sincerity and depth of the faith almost always can be determined as not very significant.

How do we get Faith in their vocabulary?

Two other observations strike a cord with me.

First, we as Christian Educators should not shy away from teaching our teenagers about the deeper things of the scriptures. Schools demand that our teens learn the intricacies of calculus, writing essays in great detail, and how the anatomy of living creatures works, so why can't we expect them to understand the deeper things of scripture?

For one, I believe that the deeper things can't be taught if they are not understood by the educators wether they are a student pastor, volunteer worker, or parent. Another reason that we can't teach the deeper things of scripture is a fascination with the big stuff that does not lend itself to teaching in a more intimate setting that is conducive to teaching in a way that breeds DISCUSSION. . .We can teach overarching themes, such as Christology, in our weekly student gatherings, but where is that concept being taken deeper?

Second, we need to create groups that help get our students into discussion about the things of the faith. First off, parents should be doing this in the home with students. That is their God-given responsibility, and we should encourage that not to happen by marginalizing parents in student ministry. Make them evident parts of the ministry. In addition, we create these small groups for discussion, interaction, and depth of conversation with the added benefit of inserting another caring adult into the lives of a teenager.

Teenagers can be skewed to think nobody cares for them. If we equip parents to disciple their teens, we come along side families as student pastors, and we involve another caring adult into the life of a student to teach, train, and love on them I believe that we will eventually produce a teenager that can articulate their faith.

Conclusions

  • It is very important that we grow up teenagers that understand and can talk about their faith in a way that demonstrates that they understand and own their faith. We have to grow their vocabulary.
  • It takes parents, student pastors, and other caring adults to surround teenagers with the environment to learn. Multiple adults in the life of a teenager is necessary.
  • If a person can not verbalize their faith it can be surmised that 1. they have not been properly disciples and 2. their faith is not authentic to them.

Wether or not Iddo used small groups are not is irrelevant. The main thing is that he had a job to produce young men who could fulfill the purpose of the Lord in the Temple and he did it. That is our calling: Produce teenagers that are capable of fulfilling the calling of God on their life.

They must be able to articulate their faith to a fallen world.

January 26, 2008

Oops, I did it again...

Brittany has been saying that a lot here lately. Losing her kids because, "Oops, I was stupid again!" Being caught by the paparazzi in compromising positions because, "Oops, I got drunk, again!"


There is a lot of negativity in the "oops" portion of megastars and the ordinary teenagers that we work with on a weekly basis. Nevertheless, there are also great discoveries in the repetitions that we take the kids under our watch through.


FADS


A fad is classified by something that comes along, everyone starts doing "it", and the next thing you know, it has passed on....sounds like a lot of ministry that I have witnessed in the 12 years that I have been pursuing my call....not just student ministry either.


Why do we get caught up in the next greatest things that always seem to never leave us satisfied or growing, but rather, they leave us looking for the the next big thing.

I believe that much of that practice comes from not having a basis for our ministry philosophy.


PHILOSOPHY OF MINISTRY


Philosophy of ministry is a concept that I learned from my mentor and best friend, Mike Landrum, the youth minister that I learned ministry under. He is a professor of youth ministry at North Greenville University now. The first thing that he deals with in his intro to youth ministry classes is the issue of philosophy. Why? Because it undergirds everything that you do.


The basis that I work from is that it is our calling is to see students saved, see the saved discipled, and the discipled to become disciple makers. We do that through relationship and by integrating ministry to the students families.

ONE-TO-ONE

Paul and Timothy. You and ___________. Who would you put in that blank? Timothy and Paul had a special relationship. Paul mentored Timothy. He gave him things to do. Sometimes those things were the same things that he had already done before. Does accomplishment automatically mean forward progress or moving past doing something over?

I remember the first small group that I led with 4 teenage guys. One guy in particular always semed to talk about struggling with the same thing, and it seemed to be the simplest of things. When he did it once, twice, or even 30 times, did we move on and forget that task?

We did not move on just because he did it....

REPETITION

Do overs in ministry are needed even when someone that we are discipling has done something good or even exceptionally well. Fads come and go for a reason, and I believe that reason is men and women don't master the basics of the faith.

We are starved for the next 10 ways to get closer to God or see his hand move in miraculous ways. Jesus spent 3 years with his guys. He ate with them, walked with them, went away from the to pray, minsitered to people, and taught them. He did that everyday. Everyday......

Jesus was repetitious. Was he an old stooge? Did the guys wonder what was up and want to move on? Yea. They wanted to know who was going to be greatest in heaven. He responded in Matthew 18:2-3,

"And He called a child to Himself and set him before them, and said, "Truly I say to you, unless you are converted and become like children, you will not enter the kingdom of heaven."

The basics. Come to Him simply as a child. Children do things over and over before they get it right. Why do we want to get good at things. So that we can do them the rest of our lives.....

So, lets put down the fads and pull up a chair at the workbench beside that one that God has given us to menton and do it again. Maybe someone can find an extra chair for Brittany.